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This memorial website was created in the hopes that those who stumble upon it may be inspired and touched by the beautiful life and legacy of Curtis McLaren, our dear friend, and so that those who knew him may have a place online to share memories, thoughts, and messages for and about Curtis. 

We, Curtis's friends and family, miss him more than words can express and would like to take this opportunity to pay tribute to him and share our memories with the world, via the worldwide-web.

*NOTE: Please feel free to add your memories and messages for Curtis in the "Tribute" section at the bottom of this page. It is open for everyone who knew him to share their thoughts and wishes for Curt. We know he's up there on a laptop in Heaven reading this now!!!
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Tributes and Condolences
12 years   / Mom
Hi Curt, Another year without you. I hope you're ok. I wonder if you're back here as someone else, with a different role, a different purpose. I still look for you, I search eyes, but so far I don't think I've seen you. We're doing ok, Curt and eve...  Continue >>
Happy Birthday!   / Mom
Happy 29th, Curt! I couldn't write on the actual day because this site has been down for awhile. However, all is good now. I hope you're happy and thriving and I wonder if in fact you are back here on Earth - I keep looking for you. Boston Pizza fo...  Continue >>
Mother's Day 2017   / Mom
Hi sweetie Another Mother's Day without still makes me sad. Dad and I were in Meaford, it was very quiet this year. That's ok. I thought a lot about you, and about Granny and lots of things. I hope you're doing something fun and crazy and t...  Continue >>
My arm   / Mom
Hey Curt, Can you see my arm? I absolutely love it....I feel great comfort every day, it's perfect. It's your ECG from 1992, ( and the bunny, of course) . You were only 4 years old, but had completed the Fontan. You were so so strong, so brave, nev...  Continue >>
My friend   / Patti Collins (Friend)
Curtis, I think of you often. There are so many reminders in the world around me. There was a time when I feared that these reminders would present themselves and I would be crushed, now I look forward to them and I am happy to embrace all the memori...  Continue >>
Christmas 2017  / Mom     Read >>
Christmas 2017  / Mom     Read >>
Mother's Day 2016  / Mom     Read >>
Checking In  / Christopher Oliver (friend)    Read >>
10 Years  / Mom     Read >>
9 years  / Mom     Read >>
Happy 26th Birthday!  / Leanna     Read >>
Happy Birthday!  / Mom     Read >>
Mother's Day 2014  / Mom     Read >>
Mother's Day 2014  / Mom     Read >>
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His legacy
Curt, we haven't forgotten you, WE MISS YOU  
Curtis Patrick McLaren was born on August 10th, 1988. To us, his friends, Curtis was a survivor. He possessed the true qualities of a fighter and champion. Curt was born with heart complications and overcame numerous medical procedures (including open-heart surgery!!!) as an infant. He was always proud to tell us that he made it through, and show us his scars. On Christmas morning, 1998, Curtis suffered from a devastating stroke which forced him to learn to walk and talk all over again. He came back to school the next year with determination to accomplish goals and recover with strength. Curt became an exceptionally talented magician, and could perform remarkable card tricks. At parties, and even at school, we would all gather around and Curt would show us his latest tricks (once he even convinced us that he could levitate). Whenever there were parties, Curtis was the life of them. He would always have pool parties in his backyard, and we would always go on long walks through our town, talking about random things. One time, after grade eight graduation, a whole group of us walked to TooGood Pond, a park nearby our school, and filmed videos of us rolling down the hills and acting rediculous. Then we jumped in his pool with our clothes on, and then did cartwheels in the fields of our old school. Those were good times....
Throughout high school, Curt was always there for all of his friends when they needed a shoulder to cry on or a really good laugh. He always knew just exactly what to say, and treated every one equally. He could always help you find the good in yourself, and never hesitated to point out your strengths and positive attributes. (For example, he would ask us about our day and actually WANT to hear about it.) Curt and his best bud Matt, would always watch Family Guy together and make rediculous movies (which were actually filmed and edited REALLLY well). They were the dynamic duo. Michael, Hollie and Leanna (me) would always hang out with him on Main Street, which would eventually end up in a long walk to my house for a midnight swim. Michael always had fun parties where we invented "The Jerry Springer Game". We would all take turns being certain characters, and whether Curt was playing Jerry, or Steve, or one of the crazy nutbar guests on the show, he always did it well and had a great sense of comedic timing. 
On New Years Eve, we rang in the year of 2005 together, Curt, Matt, Michael, Hollie and I. We spent the evening at Curt's house, and he had everything organized: food, drinks, noise makers, and decorations. We watched the New Years thing on television and listened to Matt Dusk sing....but we eventually got bored of that and filmed our own movie that night. NONE OF US WILL EVER FORGET THAT MOVIE....HAHAHA
One eternal memory we will always cherish is when a small group of us went to see the ET movie when it came out for the 20th anniversary, and Curt sat next to me and whispered :" When Elliot' and the guys fly up into the air on their bikes, we have to applaud REALLY LOUD. ok?" So, finally the scene where Elliot and his crew bike away into the sky with E.T in their basket, Curt and I clapped realllllly loudly and cheered as loud as we could. We were the only ones who ended up doing it, but now every time that movie plays it brings back amazing memories of Curtis.

One of the best things about Curt was his sense of humour, and his sensitive soul. He really truly cared for all of his friends, and we really truly cared for him. I guess it's just really difficult because we never expected him to leave us...we thought there would always be time. If I had known, I would have been hanging out with Curtis every day. I know that he sees us and hears us now, and that he visits all of us from time to time, because I feel it. I just know he's here. It has been almost a year and it feels like yesterday that I just had my last conversation with him. It feels like he's never really left. 
We love you Curtis, you will remain our friend forver. You will never be forgotten, you can never be replaced, and we will see you again in the future. 

Love from,
Your best friends
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lyrics: "To Where you Are" by Josh Groban
Who can say for certain
Maybe you’re still here
I feel you all around me
Your memories so clear

Deep in the stillness
I can hear you speak
You’re still an inspiration
Can it be (? )
That you are mine
Forever love
And you are watching over me from up above

Fly me up to where you are
Beyond the distant star
I wish upon tonight
To see you smile
If only for awhile to know you’re there
A breath away’s not far
To where you are

Are you gently sleeping
Here inside my dream
And isn’t faith believing
All power can’t be seen

As my heart holds you
Just one beat away
I cherish all you gave me everyday
’cause you are mine
Forever love
Watching me from up above

And I believe
That angels breathe
And that love will live on and never leave

Fly me up
To where you are
Beyond the distant star
I wish upon tonight
To see you smile
If only for awhile
To know you’re there
A breath away’s not far
To where you are

I know you’re there
A breath away’s not far
To where you are
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